Tag: relationships

  • Off the Clock…or Not

    Monday, May 4, 2026

    There are certain things people don’t always say out loud at work, but you definitely hear about them. Workplace dynamics, personalities… and sometimes, relationships. I was talking to a coworker recently who mentioned how some people come to work looking for love, and in some cases, not always the kind they’re supposed to be looking for. It made me pause for a second, because where exactly is the line? Is workplace dating something that’s still frowned upon, or is it just two adults navigating life in the same place? And is that any different from couples who were already together and end up working in the same organization?

    I’ve seen it go both ways. I know a couple who worked together for years, married, built their careers side by side, retired around the same time, and even came back part-time to the same organization. For them, it clearly worked. But I’ve also seen the other side, where lines get blurred, where people are dating within the same workplace, sometimes more than one person at a time, or even looking for something outside of what they already have. And that’s where things can get complicated… quickly. Because unlike most places, work isn’t something you can just step away from, it follows you into meetings, conversations, and everyday interactions. It actually reminds me of fashion, some people follow the rules, others break them, and sometimes it works effortlessly, while other times it just doesn’t.

  • This B….Means Business

    Tuesday, April 28, 2026

    A few weeks into the new role, I’m still getting acclimated. Building relationships is a necessary part of any environment, but when you’ve come from a place where trust was constantly tested (another story for another day), it can sometimes impact how easily you extend trust moving forward. That’s true in both professional and personal relationships.

    One morning an administrative assistant who had been on leave returned to the office and began catching up on emails. While reviewing something related to an event we were expected to RSVP to, she sent me an email and copied my supervisor, noting that she hadn’t seen a response from me. I suppose we all handle situations differently. My instinct would have been to simply reach out first and ask if there were any questions or concerns before escalating it. When I responded to the message, she quickly became apologetic.

    In my last post I mentioned how people tend to reveal themselves fairly quickly in a new environment. Moments like that are small reminders of how differently people approach communication and responsibility in the workplace.

    Not long after, my supervisor asked if I could connect with another colleague for what was framed as more of a mentoring and career development conversation. I was happy to do it and reached out right away. We met and the conversation flowed so naturally it felt like we had talked for hours, though it was actually just shy of one. We shared where we were from, past work experiences, challenges we had faced, and strategies that had helped us grow along the way. The connection was immediate.

    She was someone who genuinely cared about making a difference—about helping the next person succeed and speaking up when something needed to be said. Too often that kind of strength gets misunderstood as being aggressive or overpowering, when in reality it’s often the voice that helps move things forward. I found the conversation refreshing.

    This next look reflects that balance—strength paired with approachability, confidence softened with intention. Navy has long been associated with authority and leadership, which is why it’s often the color of choice for executives, presidents, and public figures. Pairing it with blush softens that power just enough, creating a look that feels both confident and collaborative.

    Blush carries a quiet kind of strength. It has the ability to soften the energy of a room while still holding its presence—making it the perfect tone for moments when partnership, connection, and confidence all need to exist at the same time. This Blush combination means business.

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